if someone says they’re not sure or specifically “we shouldn’t be doing this. he’s your best friend” you stop and stop having sex with them or trying to have sex with them. you wait until they are ready and sure and definitely don’t tell them you’ve got everything covered when they’re obviously raised in a conservative background and have no experience with sex or contraceptives and probably believe that you actually know what you’re doing to prevent pregnancy and make sure she’s safe
that is fucking rape, fandom. stop dismissing it.